Are You Dating A Nice Guy?
By Roberto Garabell
The popular saying says “nice guys finish last”. This might be enough to entice you and attract you to the bad boy, but in reality you need to find a nice guy to spend the rest of your life with. This guy will treat you well, give you a stable and secure home, has a great vision and your best interests at heart.
Look for the following ideals in your ideal good guy. A lack of crippling emotional problems, no alcohol or drug addiction, a stable job, anger management control, someone who oozes confidence and charm, is polite and considerate, romantic and sensual, has a great circle of friends, good values and above all, is sure of himself in terms of goals.
Consider dating a nice guy at all times. Many women seem to be attracted to men with bad qualities from previous relationships. Some women look to compare a man to their father, but this is not always a good thing if the father did not have good characteristics. Come up with a set of criteria to identify what it is that you really want and focus on your goal.
Being single and lonely is not much fun, but it should not rule your actions when it comes to looking for the next guy. Don’t rush into things. Take your time, discover yourself and what you really want and you would be in a much better position to go out into the dating arena.
Dating a nice guy means going on numerous dates. Just because you don’t feel anything on the second or third date doesn’t mean the guy isn’t right for you. It takes time to develop a solid relationship. Date for a couple of months to see if any chemistry develops before moving on.
Studies show that women are interested in dating a nice guy due to several key factors. They are attracted to certain traits, most notably dominance, wealth, physical attractiveness and, of course, the fact that he is a pleasure to be around!
You might not be dating a nice guy, the guy might just have “nice guy syndrome”! This means that, whilst he will do everything that he can for you on the surface, exuding charm and all the niceties, he will change when the initial chase is over. His true personality will likely then rise to the surface. You do not want this type of man in terms of a long-term partnership or marriage.
Many women consider nice guys to be sweet and loyal, but not thrilling or passionate. But its a perception that is far from the truth. If you’re looking for a mate who is fun, exciting and adventurous, there is a nice Mr. Right out there for you. Its just a matter of finding him.
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