Sugar Babes: Should You Be The Mistress?
By Tai Lopez
Got a married man looking for “fun on the side”? Ah, the old “my wife doesn’t understand me” bit. So many successful tycoons in their golden years find the steam going out of their marriage. Either the wife has lost interest in him (and might even have her own “man on the side”), she just isn’t able to keep up with him (sometimes for health reasons), they’re living apart (it happens with wealthy couples), or she’s even a successful business person in her own right and the two of them are far too busy to maintain a relationship between them.
Well, do you want to get involved in this? The situation is different in every case. You should be aware that if this is to be a discreet relationship and the word gets out, you’ll be booted to the curb faster than anything else lands there.
However, you should be aware that these days there is a new, more acceptable way to conduct the “kept woman” scenario. This is known as the “open marriage”. In the arrangement, both married partners are fully aware that one or both of them wants to seek fun on the side, and they’re both completely comfortable with that.
This can happen for any number of reasons. Some people practice the “poly” lifestyle, where love is not a selfish thing, but something to be openly shared. These are people who are very secure with themselves. Still other situations arise where the man wants satisfaction in some form that the wife can’t give (for various possible reasons), so the wife condones the husband getting what he wants from someone else.
In an open marriage scenario, prepare yourself for some awkward moments. You might meet the wife - it is not even unheard of for the wife to assist the husband in finding a sugar babe! Or the husband merely might allow the wife to know about you, and you might occasionally speak on the phone but otherwise avoid contact. All kinds of variations may occur. When both husband and wife are seeking a single female for both of them to play with, this falls into “poly” territory, and it’s a different thing altogether.
If at all possible, you should seek to at least have an “open” arrangement, where the wife at least knows of your existence and is OK with it, because this makes it easier for everybody to get along. Some wives kind of know, but don’t want to know, so respect that too. Last, there really are married couples who would be divorced, but circumstances trap them in a dead marriage. Have you every tried to split up a multimillion dollar empire so that each side gets a fair share? Some wealthy couples prefer to live separate but stay married in law only, simply because the legal tangles are too complicated to bother with.
Whether or not you’re up to this task is up to you. Just remember that your position is never as stable as it would be if your sugar daddy were single and carefree.
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